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Avoiding Engagement Ring Blunders
It was a blistering hot Southern California night. Sam and Carly were leaving the local hot spot after an evening of drinking and dancing with their closest friends. From a mile away, anyone could see that they were in love. They kissed and joked with each other as they made their way hand-in-hand to his brand new Harley Davidson Night Train.
Sam was twitchy, because the engagement ring he just bought for Carly was burning a hole in his pocket. He could not wait one more second to find out if she would become Mrs. Jones. Dropping to one knee like he had seen in so many movies, Sam slowly withdrew the one-carat diamond engagement ring he had found in Palm Desert only one week before.
For Carly, this was a dream come true. She was instantly sober and absolutely giddy when he slipped that engagement ring on her finger. The next morning, though, her heart crashed to her feet upon realizing that Sam had absolutely no memory of that moment that had meant so much to her. Over and over she asked herself “how could anyone forget something as important as a proposal?”
Typical Proposal Mistakes and How to Avoid Them:
Carly and Sam’s story, while true, is not typical. Most men do not forget they have proposed marriage, particularly when they have presented her with an engagement ring. However, there are some things that do commonly happen that may shatter that oh-so-romantic moment. These include:
· Proposing too soon: Okay, so she takes your breath away when she enters the room, but you still want to give it a bit of time to make sure she is the one you want to spend every day with.
· Pushing for an answer: You gave her the ring and your best-rehearsed “will you marry me” and she neither screamed “YES” immediately nor seemed to show the excitement you expected. This doesn’t necessarily mean that she needs prodding. In this case, it is best to give her the time she needs to think.
· It’s all about her: When you plan to present her with that engagement ring it took you months to find, remember that moment is all about her—not you. Make sure the event is something she will remember for a lifetime.
· Keep it simple: The more complicated you make the presentation of that engagement ring, the greater the chances of something unexpected happening. For example, a man I worked with once buried his ring in a candy dish filled with jelly beans. It took weeks for her to find it, because she was so upset that candy was all she had received for Valentines Day after seven years.
· Bend like a reed in the wind: When you try to push a day or a time, the engagement process can become rigid and inflexible—not the dream of lifetime moment you are hoping for. It may take a while, but be patient and wait for that perfect moment to ask. The end result will be a cherished memory for you both.
If you follow these simple guidelines and avoid situations like Sam’s, she will remember the night you presented her with that carefully chosen engagement ring for a lifetime.
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Things to Consider in Buying Engagement Rings
Although engagement rings are too simple and shallow to compare the heavy commitment that a couple are preparing for, giving a lady an engagement ring means so much to the them, as if saying they are bound to be together soon, and that these rings are the best expression of the readiness to settle down.
Most of the time and in most cultures, men are the ones who look for and choose engagement rings. In fact, in some countries, men even prepare for the place and time that they will be offering the engagement ring to the lady. It is because most of the time, the moment of giving the engagement ring is the moment of proposal. A man proposes his plans to wed the woman soon, and it is up to the woman to decide. Usually, a man doesn’t expect no for an answer, which is why he gives all his best, shells out all the money that he has just to show the woman that he is willing to do everything just to have her in his life, just to be her one and only love.
And since it is considered to be a very special and in fact, a very heart-pumping moment, men choose carefully which engagement ring to buy. Others consider diamond cut engagement rings, while others prefer emerald cut engagement rings. There are actually no rules about which rings to buy. However, it is up to the call of the men to think which one they think will be best appreciated by the women they love. And given the fact that they want it so much to be special, they even hire the best jeweller to help them choose the best ring. Others even create their own style of rings, may it be diamond cut engagement rings or others. Others also consider engraving the name of the women they love so that their engagement ring will be the most prized possession of the woman.
In whichever way men try to propose their love and plans of marrying women, and no matter what type of engagement ring is to be given, it should always be remembered that proposals are not just a mere presentation of what material things a man can give to his love. It is all about loving the woman with all his heart and might, with giving all that he could, and proving that he is responsible enough to be the man of the woman’s life. Therefore, an engagement ring, though very popular and special to most cultures, is not everything for a proposal. One can actually do away without giving an engagement ring, or choosing a simple cut of engagement ring just to present to the lady. After all, the lady will more appreciate simpler engagement rings for what’s important for them is the love that accompanies every material thing given to them. As cliche as it may be, it is always the thought that counts. So why wasting your time getting the most expensive diamond cut engagement rings? If one has many, then go and buy one. But for those who don’t stick to more practical and simpler cuts. You can always make it up by giving them better wedding rings or anniversary rings in the future. What is more important is that one is willing to give all the love in the world, with or without engagement rings.
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Diamond Engagement Rings
If you have finally and firmly decided to wed your beloved, and make them yours forever, then the first and foremost thing you ought to do, quite obviously, is let them know of it. And in order to do that, you will, but naturally, require a beautiful and stunning engagement ring – something that will lure them further into agreeing to your proposal, apart from your immense love, of course. Since you really want this special and unforgettable day to be etched in both your memories forevermore, it is advisable that you make the proper arrangements when it comes to the setting, the mood, and, of course, the engagement ring itself.
An engagement ring is a promise, as it were – a promise to support your partner through every phase of life, and to hold their hand in times of dire need, as well as those of ecstatic contentment. It denotes a vow of relentless and unbreakable love and commitment, and a secret, affectionate assurance that you will guide them in the right direction when required, and allow no harm to befall them at any time whatsoever. And because of all these reasons, engagement rings happen to be extremely essential objects in emotional terms, and hence, the selection of the right one from all those available is equally vital.
There are certain aspects you really need to take care of when it comes to selecting the right kind of engagement ring for your dear partner. These include the metal, the stone, the design and of course, your budget.
We shall start from the factor mentioned last – your budget, for it influences each and every other aspect. If you have a high threshold when it comes to the financial means required to buy an engagement ring of your choice, there should not be much of a problem in terms of the vast variety that you will come across. However, in case you have a considerably low budget, do not lose heart. You will find quite a wide variety even in the ‘affordable’ or ‘inexpensive’ engagement rings section.
Once you have decided on the budget, though, the next thing you ought to consider is the metal from which you want the engagement ring to be wrought. You could choose from silver, yellow or white gold, or even platinum, if your pocket allows it. The design of the engagement ring comes next, and here, it is advisable for you to go through all the possible patterns before choosing any particular one.
Finally, you ought to decide on the stone you want to embed in your special engagement ring. You could select a lovely unique engagement ring, or even a rare cubic zirconia engagement ring, according to your budget and preference. The size, color, cut and shape of the stone should all be taken care of.
Once you have come to a final conclusion regarding all this, all you have to do is find the perfect engagement ring for your beloved. And once you have found it, it would be quite inadvisable for you to tarry much. Go ahead and propose as soon as possible with this glittering engagement ring, and embark on a new journey – a new life, after crossing this special milestone.


